Grihastha Ashrama: Householder Life


Grihastha Ashrama (25 to 50 years) Householder (married life with children and attendant duties in the world). This ashrama is the period of fulfilling the duties of the immanent. Most people marry, have children and live a family life with its attendant engagement in the world.   

Children endow marriage with social responsibilities. Husband and wife are seen as co-partners in their spiritual progress, and the family provides a training ground for the practice of unselfishness. Healthy householders are the foundation of a good society and by discharging their duties as teachers, soldiers, merchants, scientists, manual workers or whatever vocation suits their nature, they acquire wealth and enjoy the pleasures and suffer the pains of a natural life. By adhering to the path of righteousness (dharma), the individuals grow in wisdom. 

One must acknowledge though that in this ancient view of life, all of life is always in cooperation with the sacred - attention to the world is not, as in modern times, a life of alienation from the sacred and indulgence in sensual excess but the world becomes a pathway to realization of the sacred through a disciplined, creative endeavour.